Sometimes the quotes I come across are quite funny; yet, some of them, though funny, have some merit. One said, Do not remove a fly from your friend's forehead with a hatchet. While no one would ever really try to do such a thing, there's a serious thought here. This saying means that we should never cause more damage to our friend by correcting his/her error than the error itself is causing. Sometimes all we see is the bad---even in our friends. Instead of focusing on the commendable traits, we pick at the bad. I'm not saying that we should hide our eyes from wrongdoing; I'm not saying that we should pretend everything is right when we know that our friend is in trouble spiritually. What I am saying is that sometimes we rebuke harshly for things that are minor and do not correct at all when the offense is major. I guess we have it backwards. In Matthew 23:24, the Lord Jesus spoke to the Pharisees and told them that they strained at a gnat and swallowed a camel. In other words, they majored on minor things and minored on major things. There's a fine line, girls, and I realize that. The line is in the fact that you must not be judgmental or condemning; however, you must be a representative of the Light. So, be kind...be gentle. Always offer a listening ear, but never let your silence be misinterpreted for a sympathetic understanding when your friend is in the wrong.
Finally, remember Proverbs 27:6,
Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.
Scripture Reading for the Day:
Proverbs 24
Luke 18
Hm I had never heard that quote before and It really is thought provoking. Saturday I read proverbs 24 and Luke 18
ReplyDeleteSometimes I get so stressed out over the tiniest things. I realize that this is not good though. I want to try to get better at this. Today I read Proverbs 24/ John 11
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